Ray,
Just spoke with onecom representative. His first response was that they have no equipment that creates my emails. I explained the fact that the php, pearl, mysql,etc are on his servers, part of the service he provides as ISP. I quoted your message about the problem being emails not being created and sent to the relay. That just confused him. He doesn't understand.
Being that I can't give him an error code, he won't make any effort to analyze my problem. He says Verizon is blocking my email.
I suggest that the mail is not being generated and sent on his end, he has no idea what I'm talking about.
Andy